If you're looking for a low stress quickly made holiday dessert this Non Traditional Sticky Toffee Pudding is not to be missed. While often thought of as overwhelmingly sweet, this one is not. The easily made individual sponge cakes are rich, moist, served warm with one of two sauces - traditional Toffee Sauce or a Lemon Rum sauce for a change.
So why is this non traditional? Because the dates are cooked with a bit of Kahlua which enhances the taste and both sauces contain a bit of dark rum for depth.

I had a bit of fun researching this recipe. I found it is steamed, it isn't steamed (at least not anymore), it has spices, oh, no it doesn't, it can be soaked in toffee sauce but doesn't have to be, it's served hot but can be served cold (if you are a bore), it is accompanied by whipped cream, no make that ice cream.
The two things everyone agrees on it is made with dates that are softened in hot or boiling water and it is served with toffee sauce accompanied by whipped cream, creme anglaise, or ice cream or just toffee sauce. Or it used to be - now there's a Lemon Rum Sauce to go with it.
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What's the best date for the Toffee Pudding?
For the purposes of this recipe all dates are not created equal. The premier date is Fresh Medjool Dates. Native to Morocco, Medjool dates come from the date palm tree and are now grown in warm regions of the United States, the Middle East, South Asia, and Africa. There are a couple of great articles, 6 Benefits of Medjool Dates and Everything you Need to Know About Medjool Dates that fill you in on all the benefits of this amazing fruit.
Fresh Medjool dates are not the same as dried dates and therein lies the difference for me. They are harvested at their peak of ripeness when their moisture content is high making them soft and chewy with a caramel like texture. On the other hand, "dried dates" are dehydrated making them firmer in texture and sweeter. I made this several times because the first time I used a package of dates found in the dried fruit department of the grocery store. I found it to be bland. So I went to my usual go-to Medjool dates and it made a big difference.
Here are a few things to look for when preparing them to cook with:

1. Medjool dates come pitted and with pits. I'm not sure about you but I have better things to do than pit dates. 2. The size of the dates is at least twice as big as other dates and they are moist as opposed to dry. 3. Look carefully at the dates as some of them still have their stem end on as you can see on the one on the left. On the right date, I have removed it. 4. The other thing to look for is the pit or stone. These dates are split from top to bottom so it is easy to open them to make sure there are no pits.
What to do with the remaining dates?
There are three really good ways to use these up. The first is the Crumb Topped Orange Date Muffins. While the recipe calls for 8 ounces, the remaining 6 ounces are fine. The second recipe is the fantastic and easy Date Nut Bread which makes a great ham and cheese sandwich. The final offering is the Orange Date Bread Pudding.
This Toffee Pudding is:
- Super Simple to make in a processor in just a couple of steps.
- Packed with flavor and perfectly balanced.
- Everything can be made ahead of time.
- It simplicity belies the richness and complexity of taste.
- Everyone loves and individual dessert and this one presents beautifully.
Variations
- Adding the grated zest of a medium size orange makes this an even more amazing dessert. It's one of my favorite things to do.
- Also, the addition of ½ cup of coarsely chopped toasted walnuts or pecans adds a bit of texture with or without the orange zest.
Recipe Ingredients
Toffee Puddings

FRONT ROW: Baking powder, salt, baking soda, vanilla
MIDDLE ROW: Kahlua, eggs, unsalted butter, medjool dates
BACK ROW: Brown sugar, all-purpose flour, water
Toffee Sauce

FRONT ROW: Golden Syrup (or honey or clear corn syrup), unsalted butter, dark rum ( such as Meyer's)
BACK ROW: Dark brown sugar, heavy cream
Lemon Sauce

FRONT ROW: Unsalted butter, dark rum, cornstarch
BACK ROW: Lemon juice, granulated sugar, water
Be sure to see the recipe card below for the full ingredients and instructions.
Step by Step Instructions

Step 1. Spray six jumbo muffin cups or 6 ounce ramekins or a 12 well muffin pan for smaller puddings with a non-stick baking release. Set aside. Place the dates, Kahlua, and water in a medium size saucepan with high sides as this will boil up quite high. Bring to a boil. Step 2. Remove from the heat and heat and add the baking soda. The liquid will rise up quickly and then subside. Step 3. Place the dates and liquid in the bowl of a food processor. Step 4. Process until pureed. Cool.

Step 5. Add the baking powder and salt to the flour and whisk. Set aside. Step 6. Add the butter, eggs, brown sugar and butter to the processor bowl. Process until smooth. Step 7. Add the flour. Step 8. Pulse quickly 3 or 4 times just to mix the flour in. Do not over mix. Divide the mixture between the molds, using about ½ cup less 1 tablespoons per mold or 140 grams. Bake as directed.

Step 9. The puddings have domed and need to be flattened. Step 10. I found the best way to do this is to use a 1 cup measure about the size of the top of the molds. Step 11. As soon as they come from the oven, press down hard with the cup to flatten them. Wipe the bottom of the cup each time to prevent the cake from sticking to the cup. Do it again if necessary. Step 12. Cool for about 10 to 15 minutes and turn the puddings out onto a cooling rack to cool completely.

Step 13. For the lemon sauce, whisk together the flour and baking powder in a medium size saucepan. Step 14. Add the remaining ingredients. Step 15. Bring to a boil while stirring. Stop stirring and let the sauce boil hard for 1 minute. 16. Remove from the heat and pour into a bowl.

Step 17. With a skewer that is about ⅛ to ¼" thick, poke holes in the pudding. Rotate the skewer to widen the hole. Try not to go all the way through to the bottom of the puddings or the sauce will run out. Step 18. Continue until all of the puddings have been prepared. Step 19. Pour a large spoon of the lemon sauce over the top so it drips down into the holes. Let it sit for several minutes and repeat. Step 20. When serving, microwave each pudding for about 10 to 20 seconds to warm it up and then place it in a bowl and pour more sauce over it.

Step 21. To make the toffee sauce, place everything but the cornstarch in a medium size sauce pan. Step 22. Bring the mixture to a rolling boil. Mix the cornstarch with the water and add it to the sauce. Bring it back to a boil and boil for 1 minute. Step 24. Pour the toffee sauce into a bowl. Pour a large spoonful over the prepared puddings and follow the instructions for the lemon sauce.
Recipe FAQ'S
According to Wikipedia, "The pudding was invented in 1907 by the landlady of the Gait Inn in Millington, East Riding of Yorkshire, but was popularised in the 1970s by Francis Coulson and Robert Lee, who developed and served it at the Sharrow Bay Country House Hotel in Cumbria.[4][5]"
Because the English refer to desserts as puddings. They are not what Americans call puddings.
Dates are very fibrous. The baking soda softens the dates and break down the fibers allowing the dates to make a smooth paste. It also reacts with the acidic nature of the dates and brown sugar as well as aiding it the cake rising.

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Non Traditional Sticky Toffee Pudding
Equipment
- A 6 well jumbo muffin pan or 6 6 ounce ramekins or a 12 well regular muffin pan
Ingredients
Toffee Pudding Sponge
- 6 ounces Medjool dates (170 grams)
- ⅓ cup Kahlua liqueur
- ⅞ cup water (1 cup less 2 tablespoons)
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- ¾ cup brown sugar, light or dark (150 grams)
- 2 large eggs
- 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened (60 grams)
- 1 teaspoon vanilla, McCormick artificial is fine
- 1 ¼ cup all-purpose flour (170 grams)
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- ¼ teaspoon salt
Lemon Rum Sauce
- 1 cup granulated sugar (200 grams)
- 1 ½ tablespoons cornstarch
- ¾ cup water
- ¼ cup dark rum (such as Meyers)
- ⅓ cup lemon juice, freshly squeezed
- 4 tablespoons unsalted butter (60 grams)
Toffee Rum Sauce
- 4 tablespoons unsalted butter (60 grams)
- ½ cup heavy cream
- 1 cup dark brown sugar (200 grams)
- ¼ cup dark rum (such as Meyers)
- ¼ cup golden syrup, corn syrup or honey
- 1 ½ tablespoons cornstarch
- 2 tablespoons water
Instructions
Toffee Pudding Sponge
- Preheat the oven to 350°F. Spray the jumbo or regular muffin cups or ramekins with a non-stick baking spray and set aside.
- Place the dates, Kahlua and water in a medium size saucepan with high sides. Bring to a boil. Remove from the heat and add the baking soda. the liquid will rise up quickly and then subside.
- Place the dates and liquid in the bowl of a food processor. Process until completely smooth. Cool before continuing.
- Combine the flour, baking powder and salt. Set aside.
- Place the butter, eggs, sugar and vanilla in the bowl of the processor with the dates. Process until well mixed.
- Add the flour to the processor and pulse 3 or 4 times quickly just to mix the flour in. Do not over process.
- Divide the batter between the six containers using about ½ cup less a tablespoon or 140 grams. If using the smaller muffin pans use a scant ¼ cup or about 70 grams.
- Place in the oven and bake the larger ones for 22 to 26 minutes until a tester comes out mostly clean and the tops bounce back when lightly touched. Bake the smaller ones about 12 to 15 minutes.
- Immediately upon removing from the oven, use a 1 cup dry measuring cup to press down the humpy middle to flatten the puddngs. Repeat if necessary to flatten the tops. Use a smaller cup for the smaller puddings.
- Cool about 10 minutes and then release the puddings, leaving them upside down. Place on a cooling rack to cool completely.
Lemon Sauce
- Combine the sugar and cornstarch in a medium saucepan. Add the remaining ingredients and place over medium heat.
- Stirring constantly, bring to a boil and boil hard for 1 minutes. Remove from the heat and pour into a container to cool. Store in the refrigerator.
Toffee Sauce
- Place everything but the cornstarch and 2 tablespoons water in a medium size saucepan over medium heat. Bring to a boil and boil for 5 minutes.
- Add the cornstarch to the water, stirring well. Add to the toffee sauce in the pan, and bring it back to a boil stirring constantly. Boil for 1 minute. Remove from the heat and pour into a container to cool. Refrigerate if not using at once.
- Using a wooden skewer about ⅛" to ¼" wide, poke about 5 holes in the puddings but not going through the bottom. Pour a large serving spoon full of one of the sauces on top of the cake. Wait a few minutes for it to dribble down into the holes and repeat once more.
- To serve: Warm the puddings in the microwave for about 20 to 25 seconds each if room temperature. If heating a lot, preheat the oven to 350°F. oven. Place them on a baking pan lined with parchment paper. Cover the pan with foil, poking a hole in the middle. Heat for 10 to 15 minutes until vey warm.
- Serve with one of the sauces generously poured over.
- The puddings can be stored covered for a couple of days at room temperature. Heat them as above and warm the sauces before serving.
- The puddings can be frozen, well wrapped for several months. Thaw at room temperature then heat as called for above before serving. he sauces can be made a week ahead and refrigerated.









Nancy says
Helen Thank you for all your great recipes! Look forward to trying this one.
Helen S Fletcher says
Hi Nancy - you're welcome. I truly love sharing.
Victoria Lane says
Your recipes are amazing, and it appears this one will also not disappoint! Thank you for sharing your expertise!!